Danielle Lloyd confirms she WILL go ahead with controversial gender selection to have a baby girl just weeks after heartbreaking miscarriage
Danielle Lloyd will use the process of gender selection to have a baby girl, as planned, despite suffering a miscarriage just weeks ago.
The former model, 35, is already the mother of four boys and has been open about wanting a baby girl as her fifth child.
And despite falling pregnant again two years after welcoming youngest son Ronnie, the ex-Celebrity Big Brother contestant lost her fourth baby - but told Good Morning Britain on Monday that she will head to Dubai to ensure she has a girl.
Plans: Danielle Lloyd will use the process of gender selection to have a baby girl, as planned, despite suffering a miscarriage just weeks ago.
'[Her sons] keep asking me all the time for a sister and obviously it’s quite difficult to explain to them so I say "You’ll just have to wait for the stork to bring the baby and see if it brings a girl".
'For me, I’ve got such a close bond with my mum, I want that bond as well with a daughter.
'I’m not ungrateful that I’ve got four boys, I love them and they’re amazing and I’m so glad I was able to have four boys but there’s just something inside me that makes me want to have a daughter.
'I don’t mind if she’s a tomboy it’s just that thing about having a girl. I think girls are so much closer to their mums.'
'It was devastating': Danielle revealed that she believed she was expecting a baby girl before she lost the child
Forward thinking: The ex-Celebrity Big Brother contestant lost her fourth baby - but told Good Morning Britain on Monday that she will head to Dubai to ensure she has a girl
Danielle appeared on the morning debate show alongside fellow mum-of-four and former star of The Apprentice Jessica Cunningham, who was against the idea of gender selection.
Defending herself, Danielle said: 'It’s not harming anyone, it’s my decision, it’s my life, why does anyone care what I’m doing?'
Danielle married electrician Michael O'Neill in April, who is Ronnie's father.
She has three sons from her relationship with footballer Jamie O'Hara - Archie, nine, Harry, eight, and George, who turns six next week.
Debate: Danielle appeared on the morning debate show alongside fellow mum-of-four and former star of The Apprentice Jessica Cunningham, who was against the idea of gender selection
For and against: Defending herself, Danielle said - 'It’s not harming anyone, it’s my decision, it’s my life, why does anyone care what I’m doing?'
On her heartbreaking loss, Danielle previously told Closer magazine: 'I really believe it was a girl. This pregnancy felt different to my others.
'It was devastating when the miscarriage happened and I was completely heartbroken. It was devastating. I definitely need a few months to get over it and have a breather.
'But I want to try again in the future - I really feel like I'm meant to have a girl. I've seen psychics who have said I'll have one, and I really believe in all that.'
Plans: Danielle admits she's returned to the prospect of gender selection after her trying for a baby naturally
Detailing the moment she found out she miscarried, the CBB star revealed she broke down in tears when she realised she lost a lot of blood following a trip to West Midland Safari Park with Ronnie.
Danielle recently shared she's keen on conceiving a child naturally after previously considering gender selection, but now admits she's returned to the prospect of taking the controversial route after her 'upsetting' miscarriage.
Gender selection treatment has been condemned by the World Health Organisation (WHO) and is illegal in Britain.
The WHO says that sex selection raises 'serious moral, legal, and social issues' and can lead to the devaluation of women and gender imbalance.
What causes a miscarriage?
It is highly unlikely that you will ever know the actual cause of a one-off miscarriage, but most are due to the following problems:
• ABNORMAL FETUS
The most common cause of miscarriages in the first couple of months is a one-off abnormal development in the fetus, often due to chromosome anomalies. 'It's not as though the baby is fine one minute and suddenly dies the next,' says Professor James Walker, Professor of Obstetrics and Gynaecology at the University of Leeds.
'These pregnancies fail from the outset and were never destined to succeed.' Most miscarriages like this happen by eight weeks, although bleeding may not start until three or four weeks later, which is worth remembering in subsequent pregnancies. 'If a scan at eight weeks shows a healthy heart beat, you have a 95 per cent chance of a successful pregnancy,' says Professor Walker.
• HORMONAL FACTORS
A hormonal blip could cause a sporadic miscarriage and never be a problem again. However, a small number of women who have long cycles and irregular periods may suffer recurrent miscarriages because the lining of the uterus is too thin, making implantation difficult.
Unfortunately, hormone treatment is not terribly successful.
'There used to be a trend for progesterone treatment, but trials show this really doesn't work,' warns Professor Walker. 'There is some evidence that injections of HCG (human chorionic gonadotrophin, a hormone released in early pregnancy) can help, but it's not the answer for everyone.' The treatment must be started as soon as the pregnancy is confirmed, at around four or five weeks.
For women over 40, one in four women who become pregnant will miscarry. [One in four women of all ages miscarry, but these figures include women who don't know that they are pregnant. Of women who do know that they're pregnant, the figure is one in six. Once you're over 40, and know that you're pregnant, the figure rises to one in four]
• AUTO-IMMUNE BLOOD DISORDERS
Around 20 per cent of recurrent miscarriers suffer from lupus or a similar auto-immune disorder that causes blood clots to form in the developing placenta.
A simple blood test, which may need to be repeated several times, can reveal whether or not this is the problem.'One negative test does not mean that a women is okay,' warns Mr Roy Farquharson, consultant gynaecologist who runs an early pregnancy unit at the Liverpool Women's Hospital.
Often pregnancy can be a trigger for these disorders, so a test should be done as soon as possible,' he adds.But it can easily be treated with low dose aspirin or heparin injections, which help to thin the blood and prevent blood clots forming - a recent trial also showed that women do equally well on either. ''We have a 70 per cent live birth rate in women treated for these disorders,' says Dr Farquharson, 'which is excellent.'
• OTHER CAUSES
While uterine abnormalities, such as fibroids, can cause a miscarriage, many women have no problems carrying a pregnancy to term. An incompetent cervix can also cause miscarriage at around 20 weeks.
While this can be treated by a special stitch in the cervix, trials suggest it is not particularly successful, although it may delay labour by a few weeks.Gene and chromosomal abnormalities, which can be detected by blood tests, may also cause recurrent miscarriages in a small number of couples.
A procedure known as preimplantation genetic diagnosis can help. After in-vitro fertilisation (IVF), a single cell is taken from the developing embryo and tested for the gene defect. Only healthy embryos are then replaced in the womb.
It is an expensive and stressful procedure - and pregnancy rates tend to be quite low - but for some this is preferable to repeated miscarriages or a genetically abnormal baby.